It’s common that every human expects something from someone they love or the person whom they are very close. But at times we get hurt when things really go wrong and when something happens across our expectations. It’s quite common these days. We cannot make everyone satisfied. We cannot sacrifice the whole of whatever we have just because someone else kept some kind of expectations on us. It’s harder to understand this world and the critical people who live in. Some live their life with what they have with satisfaction. Some are unsatisfied. It’s been a fact that the latter kind of people lives with more expectations and at the same time these are the people who get hurt very easily for silly reasons. They take chance to live with more sentiments. They can’t even digest the things happening around them irrespective of their expectations. These are the people who live with lots of worries. Is this nature good to carry throughout the life??? Noway it can be carried forward. But how to handle it? Most of the younger generation these days chooses to prefer drinking, smoking and some kind of other ways which keeps them relax for some hours, minutes, seconds. But the point is why to carry the struggles and sufferings throughout the life? Why to get hurt day by day? The real solution is to sit and think. Evaluate ourselves. What’s gone wrong in between either in relationship with people or just the way we expect others without understanding anyone or not even giving others a chance to understand you. You still blame people. You still blame situations and circumstances. Here comes the point that nothing or none are wrong but it’s only our mindset takes everything in a wrong sense. We have to understand this and also have to approve very strongly that we are the one who complicate the life with unnecessary thoughts.
For example, if a person whom we love to share our views and thoughts, whatever, at times maintains a distance from us make us feel that the particular person is avoiding us and apparently we start to think and worry why he/she very close to us behaving very odd and we g mad even. It’s always good to evaluate and correct ourselves when really something has been made wrong on our side. But at the same time think about the person what really makes them do that. May be ‘coz of problems they have met in their life. Due to some kind of worries which have loaded into their mind. There might be a cause for them. But we completely become dumb since we think only in our point of view as usual. Here I have to bring a point “Come out of such mindsets”. Instead think and act in such a way how to bring the abnormal state normal. When you start understanding things and practicing what said above, we not only learn how to manage the tougher situations and bring back the solution for it but also a kind of maturity in our mind. That’s what we need the most in this present world. Another thing I have to quote here is what would be our reaction when a person whom we love the most starts to blame us for some reasons. Let us not complicate things. It’s always acceptable that when our loved ones blames us for some specified reasons it’s our duty(a good sense i guess) to listen and if they are expecting a change within us at least change your behavior when they are with you. Give the best out of yourself. Try at least. When you’re loved one demand something from you which you haven’t ever expected, cope up with if you could. You may have a better life after for a little sacrifice you make for them. There’s nothing wrong in it. Never grow hatredness in your heart instead try being patient at some moments that really helps you in building relationships with people.
Enrich yourself with love and patience. Life is such a simpler one when you understand the things and then act wisely. Live a happy life ever.
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