How Do I Know If Its Love?

How Do I Know If Its Love?

The questions are wonderful and have been asked by poets for centuries. People in this country often seem to feel that when we feel that exciting, first flush that that is love. That feeling is so exciting but not long, lasting.
True love is much quieter and much deeper than that.
You may no longer feel fireworks anymore. That does not mean that you no longer love your girl/boyfriend. It may mean that your feelings have changed and deepened.
If you look at her/him and feel peace and calm and contentment, this still could be love.
You need to go back and ask yourself what was love for you before. What made you decide if that was real? Now what has changed?
Now ask yourself what, exactly, do you feel now. Is it disgust? Is it nothing? Is it friendship? Are you attracted to other people?
If you still can't imagine yourself with other people, but no longer get butterflies when you see her/him, it may still be love.
You are the only one who knows what will satisfy you. If you need to always have fireworks, and there is nothing wrong with that desire, make sure you are okay with shorter-term relationships.
If you want a life partner, look inside of yourself and decide what will make you happy, not just today or tomorrow, but 20 years from now, too.
You are not "suppose" to feel anything, except happiness, everything else is individual.
Enjoy the searching.  

Fart.

Indians fart and say--excuse me!


British fart and say--pardon me!


Japanese fart and say--forgive me!


And


Americans fart and say--not me!

OLD V/S NEW.

Times have changed drastically, every single thing has changed world is moving in rocket speed good or bad consequences are yet to be seen.

Gone are those days when we used to play hide and seek, chain game, catching game and ludo you ask any kid about these games now, they would not know instead that kid will ask you about online games, video games, play stations. The fun of running bare footed and getting dirty and then having bath with hot water and getting shouting from parents I still miss it.

Gone are those tiled houses and now the concrete houses, miss those big gardens, robbing mangoes, chickoo and berries from neighbors gardens.

Yeah also the change in love life, the experience of guys following gals and dying just for a shy smile from a gal , getting love letters threw a common friend and now online dating, chatting has taken over.

Evening time was the time to meet friends, family but now the dumb box has taken a toil everybody is so glued to TV.

Smaller sickness have shaped up and formed bigger decease like aids, cancer, pressure and diabetics.

Work has taken over 90% of our time and we are left with 10% time for our family and friends. No time is the common word we hear now a days. With work pressure we have gained bigger diseases and shorter life span.

We cannot go back to our old life but yes we can always have a bigger life span. Leave your work at your workplace, give time to your personal life, make friends, learn a hobby, and play with your kids. Make your life more meaningful and live it to the core.

Zindage na milege dobara so run fulfill all your dreams today coz tomorrow is not known to anybody.

Donkey in the Well

One day a farmer's donkey fell down into a well.

The animal cried piteously for hours as the farmer tried to figure out what to do.

Finally he decided the animal was old, hat the well needed to be covered anyway and that it just wasn't worth retrieving the donkey.

So he invited all his neighbours to come over and help him.

They all grabbed a shovel and began to shovel dirt into the well.

At first, the donkey realized what was happening and cried horribly.

Then, to everyone's amazement, he quietened down.

A few shovel loads later, the farmer finally looked down the well and was astonished at what he saw.

With every shovel of dirt that hit his back, the donkey was doing something amazing. He would shake it off and take a step up.

As the farmer's neighbours continued to shovel dirt on top of the animal, he would shake it off and take a step up.

Pretty soon, everyone was amazed as the donkey stepped up over the edge of the well and trotted off !

"Life is going to shovel dirt on you, all kinds of dirt. The trick to getting out of the well is to shake it off and take a step up."

Dear Future Girlfriend,

Dear Future Girlfriend,

I knew it. I knew it was too good to be true. This is yet another tally I can add to the board of how many times I thought I finally found you. We had our history, and I missed my chance to be with her. I thought this second chance meant that she was you. The one I’ve been waiting for. Yet again, I was wrong.
I feel so close to giving up. I keep trying to find you, but this keeps happening. I’m never good enough. It’s always, “You’re so sweet, but…”, “I can only see you as a friend…sorry…”, “I’m not interested in a relationship right now.” Hell, when I finally DO think I’ve finally found you, the girl proves me wrong and breaks me. Again. Like always.
Please, please show up soon…you don’t have to come into my life and automatically start flirting with me or anything. Just you coming into my life as a friend or an acquaintance would suffice. As long as you come into my life and make me thing “Wow…I think she’s different. Seriously different this time.” I just want you to come into my life already. I know everyone says I’m too young to be caring about this, but I think differently. If you show me that you really are different, then you wouldn’t have to ever worry about looking for love again. I’ll be loyal, I’ll be caring, I’ll be loving, I’ll try my absolute hardest to be perfect for you.
Other than just wanting to love you, there’s so many couple-y kind of stuff that I’ve always wanted to do with you. I’ve only held hands with a girl in a romantic kind of way once, and that whole fiasco was short-lived. I want us to be able to hold hands, feeling you grip onto me. I’m a kind of guy that values physical interaction as much as verbal. I am capable of telling you how much I love you, but in some (or most) moments, I won’t be able to put my feelings into words, or perhaps, maybe your beauty is just messing with my mind too much to construct a coherent sentence. In those moments, I’d just want to use physical means to explain how much I care about you. So things like holding hands, hugging, holding you in my arms, cuddling, caressing your cheek, tucking your hair behind your ear, things like that.
When we both finally have the freedom to be on our own, I’d like for us to explore the city. Go to all the little Turtle bay  we’ve never visited. Assuming I find you in manipal, we could explore Udupi. Me, living in a Shirva a 1 hours away from the Manipal, I don’t exactly have a lot of time or allowance to explore that side of the city. We could visit random restaurants and eat anything we wanted (because food is always relevant, and always a great way to bond with someone special!) Even though I’m a kind a club person, we could go to them if you want, hit up a few bars, just drink a little bit, have some fun!
Of course, I’d actually prefer to stay indoors though. Yeah, call me boring, but a majority of the time, I’d just like to stay with you and watch some TV or movies. I hope you enjoy that, because I think we could have a lot of fun with this! We could spoon on the couch (I’d prefer to be the big spoon, but I’m completely fine with switching) and take turns watching classic Disney films and incredibly cheesy action movies. After we have our share of movie magic, we could just settle in, just bask in the presence of each other. with our fingers interlocking, I’d be in paradise.

Please come into my life soon. I’ll try my hardest to live up to your expectations! Just promise you’ll love me back, and you’ll be yourself. That’s all I ask of you. Just do those two things, and I’ll love you with all of my heart, which I assure you, will be a lot!

Slowly becoming impatient,
Me

God Shuffled His Feet

 God Shuffled His Feet

After seven days
He was quite tired, so god said:
"Let there be a day
Just for picnics, with wine and bread"
He gathered up some people he had made
Created blankets and laid back in the shade

The people sipped their wine
And what with God there, they asked him questions
Like: do you have to eat
Or get your hair cut in heaven?
And if your eye got poked out in this life
Would it be waiting up in heaven with your wife?

God shuffled his feet and glanced around at them;
The people cleared their throats and stared right back at him

So he said: "Once there was a boy
Who woke up with blue hair
To him it was a joy
Until he ran out into warm air -
He thought of how his friends would come to see;
And would they laugh, or had he got some strange disease?"

God shuffled his feet and glanced around at them;
The people cleared their throats and stared right back at him

The people sat waiting
Out on their blankets in the garden
But God said nothing
So someone asked him, "I beg your pardon:
I'm not quite clear about what you just spoke -
Was that a parable, or a very subtle joke?

God shuffled his feet and glanced around at them;
The people cleared their throats and stared right back at him

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Your Farts: The Facts

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Life is Like a Decisions Tree. We Have To Think Before To Take a Decision but...Hurry Up! The World is Not Waiting for You!!!

Trust.

TRUST a word very commonly used but very rare to find. The key word in friendship, love or family.


We have lot of friends, with whom we get pally and become great buddies, in the process of becoming buddies we learn a lot of things about the other person weakness, love life, crushes, break ups, strength and a whole lot of secrets and vouch that it will be a secret and yeah we really guard that secret as if we are saving a age old treasure.


In case of a misunderstanding is this treasure saved????? Hmmmm yes a lot of question marks. Can that friend be trusted??????? Once again a lot of question marks.


Trust word is really a treasure which you will never find in this century. Be friends, be buddies, be there for your friend when in need thus proving the aged old proverb of “ a friend in deed is a friend in need” but but never share your secret with anybody however close you are.


This is a lesson I learnt which I would like to share with you. Today your best buddy would assure you that he / she will give their life for you, but tomorrow nobody has seen, your best buddy can be your worst enemy. Your truth your weakness, your life will be a open book tomorrow so friends Be careful, be wise, be on your guard, your life your truth should be yours and carry the same with you to your grave .

This may sound negative but if taken in a positive way could help you live a peaceful life excluding tensions.

Love this place like I Hate this place

Love this place like I Hate this place
you may be surprised why I am writing like this, there is a reason behind this before going to the reason I would like to start from the beginning where I lost ma track so let’s get start

I was a free bird during college days had lots of fun, and I miss those days even now. Ya every body misses their college days. But it’s not necessary to miss it, coz it’s an cycle coz every person passes this stage. The time u will get every possible opportunity knowing and unknowing moments in those days, and this is the time u regret that u missed something at that time coz u were busy with something else . ya there is no meaning of thinking of passed time coz it will never come back.

Okay back to topic LOVE THIS PLACE really u have all the fun like b4 but u can’t compare it to past, past is always past, we are in the position today like we are in relationship but still we are single, we have lots of friends but still we are alone. We have fun when we friends get together, n we miss it when we can’t get together, and we sit alone and think about every possible chance of getting together again, in search of missing fun, happiness and joy that we get trough friends .

I also I HATE THIS PLACE , coz you work work work for whole week and u will get one week end that and we are not satisfied with it, we are away from home, country and near and dear once, still we are here for them, away from love and care. We miss it a lot.

At the end of the day we are here for us coz we need it we need happiness, we need fun and we need love, n that we can’t get it in one place. In this world life goes on and you have to JUST GO WITH IT

I me myself......

I am one of those who hit this migratary trail, first from my small town to a big city in the country of my origin and from there to a wider world, looking for opportunities.

it is 7 years since I bid goodbye to my village life. few regrets about living my youthful years far away from home, mum and all that had helped shape me up to be what I am though I missed them all these years. like all migratory peoples I had no choice, and life progressed spiraling through the time lapses between the eternal hope of making it back to the roots and the abject despair over dreams getting lost or losing sheen.

I like Oman, I love muscat. but the desire to settle back in the village where I think I belong has never got lost in the occasional glitter's of an alien life. the vast lush green rice fields, the dense, cool coconut grooves, the chirpings of the birds that wake you up in the morning, the moos of the cows that graze in the meadows, the quacks ot the ducks that swim in the new sparkling waters of the paddy fields, the dripping hens taking shelter after getting wet in the unexpected showers, the ponds that swell as the heavens open up in june, the fish that welcome the first rains jumping out of the ponds into the frying pan, the snakes that lurk in the dark, winding alleys, the villagers who toil in the fields planting the saplings, their innocense and their wickedness, the dusty roads, the ample space, the fullness and the emptiness, the noise and the silence, the gossips, the brawls, the rumours.... I miss the quietude of the village life, the vivifying air from the fields, the vast verdure, the blithe atmosphere, the scent of the flowers and the fruits emanating from the surrounding, the chirping of birds, barking of dogs, the cries of the animals and the stillness of the night life. That experience is one of the most unforgettable facets of my life which I would love to relive. there is an unforgettable irresistable and unique charm about village life.

I live my presant to get back to this past and make it my future. small town mindset, but this is made me what I am, my identity in this world, my links to this big mass of matter........

Random pic for Fun

how it changed......

Here I am sitting in my office @ night
Thinking hard about life
How it changed from a maverick collage life to strict professional life.....

How tiny pocket money changed to huge monthly paychecks
but then why it gives less happiness....

How a few local denim jeans changed to new branded wardrobe
but then why there are less people to use them....

How a single plate of samosa changed to a full Pizza or burger
But then why there is less hunger.....

Here i am sitting in my office @ night
Thinking hard about life
How it changed......

How a bike always in reserve changed to car always on
but then why there are less places to go on.....

How a small coffee shop changed to starbucks n coasta
but then why its feels like shop is far aways......

How a limited prepaid card changed to postpaid package
but then why there are less calls & more messages......

Here i am sitting in my office @ night
Thinking hard about life
How it changed.....

How a general class journey changed to Flight journey
But then why there are less vacations for enjoyment....

How a old assembled desktop changed to new branded laptop
but then why there is less time to put it on.....

How a small bunch of friends changed to office mate
But then why we always feel lonely n miss those college frnz......

Here i am sitting in my office @ night
Thinking hard about life
How it changed.... How it changed......

Cocktail Tikkuja.

Cocktail Tikkuja is the brand name of Toothpick i found in one of the supermarket in UAE.

Tikkuja is a Tulu word which means "will not get it"

If Cocktail Tikkuja is read in Tulu it mean " you will not get cocktail.

ARE YOU BORED

BORED a very common word used by every individual in their day to day life. Usually an individual uses this word in an average of 1-5 times in a day but I use this word at least 14 times a day. The only time I don’t use this word is when I am sleeping.

What is the meaning of the word Bored?

As per the English dictionary:
Bore /bored / boring means: to make weary by being dull, repetitive or tedious. For Eg: “the movie was boring or I got bored seeing the movie”.

As I believe in entertaining myself and others, so the word BORED has a different meaning.

B – Bachalis (Tapori)
O – Only
R - Require
E – Entertainment
D - Daily

Let’s try and search for more entertainment and get bored always.
Get bored guys.

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We hardly working people are so fascinated by the world of internet, want to live life to the fullest, who love being happy and making other happy in simple way. Life is short, live life king size is the motto we stand for.
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